the joys of parenting

so...im pretty sure my daughter hates me...in fact, i'm more sure of this than i am of almost any other thing. she is constantly just mean to me, she pushes me away if I ask her for a hug, she wipes off every kiss I give her, and refuses to tell me she loves me. she ignores everything I say, and just doesn't respond to my attempts to give her affection...i'm at my wits end about this but no one ever seems to take my thoughts on it seriously...i've tried talking to other people and their answer is always the same, "it's just a phase" or "all kids are like that". don't even get me started on what people in "my" family think about it...they completely blow me off and say "oh, she's just like her dad was at that age"...really? I doubt that...of course those people also believe that my husband is completely emotionless, but they still believe that he's 8 years old and hates green vegetables too. maybe its just me...or maybe its just her.